Frequently Asked Questions

Do you ship to where I live?

We ship all over the world! Shipping can be calculated on the Checkout page after you’ve made your selections.

Rates are pulled live from UPS + USPS.

If you are overcharged, a refund will be issued when the order is packed!

Please read the info on the Cart page regarding which of our shipping options might be best for you, and be sure to add any comments regarding customs disclosures in the notes field at Checkout.

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Do you offer consultations? Can you look at my chart?

Given time constraints (among other things!), Kaitlin (👋 hi, that’s me!) cannot offer consultations or custom recommendations based on natal charts or most other factors.

For guidance, please see this article 🔮

For remedial suggestions based on natal factors, we recommend Austin Coppock, Austin’s year II graduates, Freedom Cole, or any of the referrals Freedom may make.

Can I add to an order that has already been placed?

Yes! As long as the order has not shipped, you are welcome to place additional orders.

After they get packed, postage will be purchased, and you will be promptly refunded any excess.

Multiples are typically flagged for consolidation by the shipping platform automatically, so there is no need create a support ticket notifying us of dual+ orders (we’re almost never manning the support portal in real time in the workroom, so thank you for the consideration but it just ends up cluttering the inbox!)

If we miss combining them, Sphere + Sundry’s policy is to refund your excess shipping regardless 🤓

You are definitely invited to write in if you feel a refund has been missed, however! We enjoy offering custom services of this nature, but it does increase the odds of a fuck up…


Will you come on my Podcast/ YouTube/ &c?

You can ask (and thank you!), but probably not 😅

Keeping operations moving is a more than full time job, so at this point my focus is best kept on the actual work over media + promotion.

If you would like to send an invitation, a list is being kept for if/ when this changes. The offers and opportunities are genuinely appreciated!

There is so much more I would be doing if the time were available…
PLUS, I am weirdly shy 🙈


Fake/ Trained Extrovert with a 12th House fallen Sun
(Who has Done Too Much Regulus Magic)

If I write asking a question that has already been answered in this FAQ will the answer be different?

Nope 😹

Still need help? Contact us…

Please note that we are currently short staffed due to Covid-19 and the Holiday season. Sometimes we are able to respond same-day, but others are taking much longer. Thank you for your patience in the interim. We have changes in the works that should drastically improve response times in early 2021 🙏

Due to a high volume of emails, it’s not possible to respond to every request.
Correspondences regarding placed orders and by paying clients have the highest priority.

Long and personally involved messages regarding chart placements asking for recommendations will likely go unanswered,
because we do not offer personal consultations. Please see this article 
for guidance on making your selections! Thank you.

The Empress’ Whipped Body Butter

The Empress’ Whipped Body Butter


Consecrated Empress herbal base with passionflower, valerian, chamomile, and extra pink lotus, fumigated and immersed in an oil mixture of sunflower, apricot kernel, sweet almond, and jojoba.

Left to imbue for many Moons and shaken during Venus’ days and hours, strained, and combined with organic coconut oil and pure shea butter before being whipped into a rich, milk chocolate and heath bar frosting scented body butter 🍫

A luxurious, nourishing, and preservative free (save the vitamin E) moisturizing melt, blending effortlessly into all skin types, with no fillers or artificial ingredients. Use on its own or add to lighter lotions. The scent, despite its deliciousness, is also 100% the result of natural essential oils and absolutes. A little goes a long way.

Apply before intimate encounters for a magical aphrodisiacal boost, or anytime for some skin nourishing self-indulgence…

Offered in a 2 oz glass jar for $30, or 6 oz bulk pot for $70

Note: These Body Butters will go out of stock and be resurrected as additional batches get (quite literally!) whipped up.




Weight 6.5 oz
Dimensions 2 × 2 × 2 in

6 oz, 2 oz


Yes — contains NO animal ingredients

Creation Date

Friday, March 27, 2020. Hour of Venus. Chart in image gallery.

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Empress Info Sheet



  1. This stuff smells delicious. It is slightly stickier than the Jupiter in Pisces body butter, and the vibe is utterly different. I was basically forcing myself to take care of work needs instead of myself today, and post shower, I impulsively put this on, proceeded to place my own needs and health first, opted for some sick time, and took a restorative nap. This could have given me some major guilt but instead my feeling was “I deserve this time to heal”. Will definitely update this review when I am feeling healthy and in a place to explore other aspects of the Empress’ power.

  2. I originally bought this hoping it would smell the same as the Empress oil, which smells divine and is my favorite S+S product of all time. This doesn’t smell the same but it does smell beautiful. It has a fruity gourmand vibe, and feels luxurious and special going on. It’s not sticky and leaves a beautiful sheen. Love the entire Empress series.

  3. This body butter is everything that is wonderful about both Venus and Taurus–sexiness, luxury, lusciousness, indulgence, decadence, glorious indolence. It feels amazing and smells amazing and makes whoever it touches a sensual Empress themself. I used to think I didn’t like sweet scents–but turns out, divine sweetness is One Hell Of A Vibe.

  4. Absolutely amazing stuff! I love this body butter and use it daily.

  5. I use this butter to calm and ground myself, as well as make myself seem more charming and beautiful and it works every time. Not only did it help me with an interview but my friends were extra affectionate when I went to go see them. I use this nearly every day, I’ll definitely order it again!

  6. This stuff is so, so good. I (nonbinary, sometimes femme, AFAB), started wearing shorts for the first time in while this summer, which meant that I started shaving my legs a lot more than I normally do. I use the body butter after shaving and it’s so good physically for avoiding razor burn. My skin feels *so* nice afterwards. I use it with intent to love and appreciate my body, and it’s been very helpful. I also get positive attention from others after using it. It’s nice and comforting on my cleavage before bed too. Empress materia is probably my fave from S + S for calming down so I can get to sleep. (Also useful in the morning before work. Just an all around fave!)

  7. This stuff is just the absolute best! Not only is the scent heavenly, the magic of it is so powerful and potent. I use it for days where my self love is waning, after a nice hot bath. It just melts into the skin and leaves it to soft and glowing in the morning that strangers will compliment me when I go out make up free to get coffee the next day. I did wear some on a date recently and I think the empress is a little better suited for powerful self love

  8. This is such a wonderful offering. I love the marzipan/almond scent and the sense of opening up to relaxation and a deep appreciation of self when I put it on. Thank you Kaitlin!

  9. I haven’t had something treat my skin so nicely in a long while. When applied after a morning shower it makes me glow. The smell is delicious and I simply feel like I deserve to be treated like a queen when I wear it, which I think makes everyone else feel it too.

  10. I’m not typically a body butter user, but the Empress Oil smelled so decadent and lovely that I had to give this a try. A little does go a long way, and the scent is amazing. Boosts my mood and feels so indulgent. From other reviews, it looks like many have already bought a backup. That’s not a bad idea…

  11. Holy deliciousness… this body butter!! I’ve been using other Empress products for a while and I was still just completely floored by its decadence and sensuality. To be fair I bought this specifically for my wedding night/ honeymoon so the vibe was already set, but this butter was an absolute hit none the less. Sweet and light, the perfect texture that isn’t too greasy or thick. Makes me feel like an absolute goddess!!

  12. I absolutely LOVE this body butter! It feels great on my skin, provides moisture that lasts, smells divine, and, um, is MAGIC! While I have and adore many other Empress items, this may be my favorite of the entire series. There’s just something that feels so nourishing about it, grounding in earth’s most sensuous pleasures and delights through slow, physical application to all my body’s curves. Like many of the reviewers who have come before me, I already bought a second for keeps.

  13. Utterly delightful, decadent and irresistible. The scent is out of this world. I already used the entire small size jar, and debating on getting another before it sells out. Lately, and in order to use it sparingly, I’ve been considering using it intentionally on the body parts that could use a little more love, compassion and confidence vs. slathering it everywhere. Seriously can’t get enough though and would buy it even if it wasn’t talismanic.

  14. I love the smell of many S+ products, but this one stands out! I never had such a strong (positive) reaction to a S+ scent before. The butter itself is also amazing. I started using it on my growing pregnant belly to avoid stretch marks and I loved it so much, I had to purchase a second one after just a few applications. It’s so soothing and lovely.

  15. using very little she becomes a second (better!) skin and my partner never fails to ask “you smell so good what’s that smell?” i often apply at night to the neck and décolletage to secure me to sleep (she firms *and* affirms!).

  16. Any good moisturizing routine should make one feel supple & lovely, but this butter sinks in far past the skin and saturates the entire being with an awareness of True Beauty. Dissipates both dryness & self-deprecation, eliminating insecurity as it erases ashiness, enhancing seductive potential all the way. Highly recommend.

  17. Decadent. Sexy. Smells delicious the way I imagine the nectar of the gods smells delicious. Goes on smooth, relaxing the muscles and the soul. Unwinds the mind and relaxes the clothes. Bliss, pure and simple. Brings peaceful sleep and pleasant dreams when applied before bed.

    This stuff *fucks*

  18. This is my first review, but absolutely not my first S&S purchase. I always mean to — it seems fitting that the Empress would be the first time I am able to overcome my inertia and laziness to finally write.

    I *never* gush about product. It was somewhat out of character for me to buy this in the first place. However, with the very first whiff, I melted at the Empress’ feet. How could I not? The scent is so decadent and alluring, and a little truly goes a long way. The tiniest morsel provides so much coverage — completely engulfed in the Empress’ delight. I felt like I was a cake and this is the icing!

  19. Everything you’ve heard about the Empress is true. Decadent, unapologetic evenings of laziness, food, and orgasms. Presents. Courage, particularly the courage to stand up for someone else. A sense that you know what you’re doing.

    And now in portable, moisturizing form! I do love how this smells, and how I can take it with me to re-apply later. Not a heavy-duty moisturizer (for me, anyway, with my East Coast-dry winter legs), but it smells great and is literally magic.

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