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Venus in Libra Oil

Venus in Libra Oil


Venus was ritually called upon during one of her finest Libra elections of 2018 to bless this oil and imbue it with her luxurious, beautiful, and joyous qualities. Damiana, raspberry leaf, yarrow, honey bee, emerald, diamond, and other ingredients sacred to Venus were combined with cold pressed almond and apricot kernel oils, along with copper leaf and sakura blossoms.

The result is a lovely perfumed oil, beautiful and fascinating to even gaze upon, let alone to experience. Upon application to the body, stress, anxiety, and worry instantly give way to an easy going, pleasant, and self-satisfied state. The heart itself opens into a beautiful bloom, ready for pollination by company or indulgent activity. It will act as a powerful attractant for those around you, helping you be seen in your best, most beautiful light, and feel that within yourself.

Apply to the heart or over common perfume points (wrists, neck, behind the ears) before parties, family events, or social activities where you would like to get maximum enjoyment and fawning from the experience, date nights, or when you want to give yourself an emotional vacation and enjoy some much needed time off and self-care.

Magically, this oil can be applied before performing Venus rituals to create a sympathetic link between yourself and the fairest benefic. This oil can be applied to yourself, sigils, or magical icons to induce and enhance glamours, ingratiate others to your person or a desired cause, and promote a charming, magnetic, and lovely persona.

Available in a half ounce glass vial for $63.



Weight2 oz
Dimensions.80 × .80 × 2.4 in
Jar or Vial Size

1/2 oz

Planetary Body




No — Contains ethically, legally harvested animal components

Creation Date

Friday August 24th, 2018, hour of Venus. Chart in the image gallery.


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    I am not a social person, I can do about one out of every eight social gatherings or events that pop up in my life. I need a lot of alone time to recharge and re-orient myself. But it can go too far and it can be hard for me to find the right balance, knowing when to push myself out the door and when I truly need my introvert re-charge time. I’ve also experienced a fair deal of social anxiety which can keep me from wanting to try new experiences because it can be so discouraging when the anxiety comes up, so there’s the element of being nervous about getting nervous! Since I got this oil, I’ve been better able to flow with social opportunities; I am getting out the door when it is the right fit– and the social gatherings have been more of a restorative experience. Pairing with Regulus has been nice for having the courage to try new social experiences. Venus rules my 2nd house and my MC, and I have noticed the benefits in that way, as well. It’s not rocket science that talking to people (oh, yes, networking!) generates activity, but this oil has helped make that much more possible for me, and to enjoy it. Also, the weekend I got it, I proceeded to hang out with 3 different Librans 3 days in a row (2 Suns and 1 Rising/Taurus Sun) Thank you, S+S / Kaitlin!

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    I have been having an amazing time with this oil so far, and I’m excited to continue using it and noting its effects. As a Libra rising, I can feel the oil working in tandem with my chart and amplifying that aspect of me–in all the best ways.

    My initial reason for buying this was to anoint myself with it for an art opening in which I had 12 pieces of art. I wore it the opening night, and the compliment I received the most was that I was a “goddess.” I also felt infinitely more confident and self-assured, whereas I tend to be fairly shy and often uncomfortable in my own skin. In addition to wearing it, I anointed the back of each of my art pieces, and they have been selling like hotcakes! I’ve also gotten a resounding positive response from people on this new body of work, and I do think that the oil has helped to amplify things in that way as well.

    I also took a goddess bath with milk, honey, rose petals, and a couple drops of the oil before doing some spell work, and the results were superb. I’m so excited to continue exploring this oil and may even make it a part of my morning ritual.

    Now I’m curious to try more of the various oils offered through S&S!

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    I use this oil everyday. Anointing my wrists and my heart with it. It provides a soothing clarity and beautification in the work that I do. It provides a soft power, gentle but powerful like the sakura blossoms it carries. It possesses a sweet fairness, in ways that only Venus in Libra could. It has help me grow in love to myself — cultivating tenderness and softness that allows me to do my work in the world with charm and excellence.

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    It took me a while to understand the full effects of this oil, and I am still learning. I have a debilitated venus in virgo and the timing for this oil was not aligned with anything major in my chart, so it’s been a slower process to understand in comparison to others who have Testimonialed.

    The main things I have noticed are a subtle smoothing over of situations and relationships. Some days I notice that my senses are enhanced, and my leaning towards venusian things is intensified, such as choosing to watch lusciously romantic and sensual movies while lying in bed, eating chocolate and fruit!

    A memorable moment with this oil was cutting my own bangs in a style I never otherwise would have chosen. I don’t think I would do this style again as it was too much upkeep and didn’t feel like “me”. (venus in virgo would prefer simplicity), but I did get a few compliments on it by strangers.

    I recently ordered the Venus Exalted oil and am curious to see how they compare, as venus in pisces is much more complimentary with my own chart. I’m looking forward to exploring more with these oils!

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    This oil plays a critical part in my daily morning ritual. I offer water and prayers to Venus and anoint myself with Venus in Libra oil over my heart, my throat, on my hands, and at the crown of my head, asking for Her blessings and guidance so I may be and beam Her grace, sovereignty, and beauty in the world.

    Since establishing this practice, I’ve found it much easier to extend compassion and patience to challenging situations/people, I receive oodles more compliments and verbal praise for my efforts, and I feel immensely more confident that the work I am doing is making a difference and bringing blessings to others as well as back to me and my beloved Lady Venus.

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    I wear this oil for presentations, especially when I feel I need to really connect & build consensus with my audience, or when I need to facilitate a group discussion. Not only do the events go well for me, but I have the sense that I receive more positive feedback from audiences when I’m wearing the Venus in Libra oil than when I’m not.

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    As a major Libra – 5 planets in Libra, 4 in the first house, including the Sun, Pluto, Mars and Venus & Uranus in my second house – this Venus series was what initially attracted me to Sphere & Sundry. I kinda expected…something…but really had no idea what that would be.

    It was so easy to make the decision to buy this. That’s what struck me at first. I just knew. There was some internal back and forth, but it was mostly theatre. And the effects began immediately. Even before the package arrived.

    Huge. Major. Transformative shifts. This series makes my inner world purr.

    There’s so much more to share, but it’s all very specific to me & likely not that useful for Testimonial purposes.

    So I’ll summarize: this is beautifully crafted and true. The Venus oil facilitated a seismic internal shift and helped me see myself in the light of the goddess. There’s a hard Saturn influence to my life, and I’ve been doing the work, but structures can still stand even when you dismantle the walls. This series helped me see and shift some of those structures, bringing more of myself into alignment and balance.

    I leave this Testimonial with deep gratitude for the creation of this series and of the work that has gone into manifesting and sharing with the world. Thank you. And an extra special thank you to my friend Rachel, who introduced me to Sphere & Sundry.

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    I’ve paused to apply Venus in Libra oil to my heart chakra a few times before social gatherings and client meetings now (I’m a designer so definitely need Venus in on my meetings) and each time have walked away going “wow well THAT went well”. Theresa sense of ease in myself that it seems to bring up that translates into ease with others and a shared sense of joy and excitement. Although I’m a native of Libra (sun/rising) my natal Virgo moon and Scorpio Venus can trip me up with those free flowing lovey Libra social interactions that are supposed to be my birthright. This oil seems to help tip the scales on that dynamic, if you’ll pardon the pun I’ve used it sparingly and have plenty left but am already concerned about hoarding it for the future- would not want to be without this secret weapon!

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    I love this oil. By nature I am an introvert, which is interesting because both my sun and rising are in Leo, and moon is in Sag. Maybe I am not by nature an introvert, but have been conditioned to shy away from social situations. Anyways, after using this oil, I felt much more open to socializing with others, and others were more open to socializing with me to. Further, I kid you not, I am not a drop dead gorgeous gal, but both times I have used this oil, I have gotten much more attention, its as if others were drawn to me.

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    Being someone who is socially awkward, it has always been a challenge trying to socialise with others, especially in a big group. I have used this oil on myself a couple of times when I have to attend group dinners and I noticed I’m feeling more at ease, making social interactions much easier than the usual. Definitely will be working more with oil to see what other experiences it’ll bring me.

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    I bought the oil and the water of Venus in Libra a little over a month ago and I love it. I have noticed that people are falling over themselves to help me – which is nice and I do feel more attractive and that I turn more heads since I have been wearing it but the most interesting thing that has happened is that I noticed that I have more self-love. Almost immediately after using the oil and spray I started having more energy and a clearer mind that helped encourage me to start eating healthier and exercising – I have lost over 12 lbs since I started using this. I had been struggling with even having the motivation to do any of this. I looked at the election chart and it turns out that the Venus in the election is conjunct my natal own Moon – Pluto conjunction in Libra and opposite my natal Venus. My natal Moon is a mess, y’all, I really struggle with self-love and self-esteem and I really do attribute my new self -love, acceptance, and initiative to take better care of myself to this oil and water combo. I think the combo has helped to counter some of the the nasty aspects that my natal Moon makes – maybe I am way off base here but that is what I feel in my heart. This was my first order and I will definitely be purchasing more items.

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    I think this may be my favorite S + S purchase to date, and it’s quickly become a “secret weapon” of sorts in any situation that might benefit from my ability to charm other people, feel myself, or merely relax and enjoy myself in social situations.

    It really does feel like I’m wearing a resplendent glamour when I put it on. It’s hard to describe, but it’s kind of like lowering yourself slowly into a perfumed bubble bath. I feel glowy, approachable and serene when I’m wearing it, and socializing feels a lot more effortless. I guess the best way I can describe it is that I have certain nights where I feel naturally “on” and I have no problem feeling wanted and desired, but often, I can be a bit more awkward and reserved. A dab of the oil helps put me in the zone and makes people want to approach me (versus the other way around). I think about Libra being the air element of Venus sometimes and what that means in terms of social dynamics, and the gracious cocktail party vibe of this oil has been pretty unmistakeable. I like pairing it with the Regulus spray when I really want to feel like the life of the party.

    Wearing this oil for three days in a row also resulted in a few funny synchronicities. Having worked with Venus in the past, I know that “people giving you shit for free” is a frequent side effect of maintaining a relationship with V. In those three days, I received some rather Venusian gifts, including an extra generous portion of salad from the Sweetgreen lady (she actually said “I hooked you up with that green stuff”) and a free ticket to the opera on a Friday night.

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    Control freak kryptonite is right! And I can’t thank you enough. I ordinarily live by my super-strong Virgo Sun and Mercury, but I have a natal Venus in Libra rising, and this has really helped let it shine.

    I had read the other Testimonials, and somehow I was still surprised at the Venus in Libra oil’s potency and effectiveness. After anointing with just a dab, I find myself instantly in a state of calm and graciousness, compliments flow from and to me, I feel radiant, and conflict is easily resolved. And those are some tall orders in my world… But my favorite effect is definitely the passionate, mind-blowing sex!

    Due to its Virgo kryptonite nature, I’ve found that I need to be very judicious when using this oil on work days. I’m the CFO of a small financial institution, and my specialties at work involve company-wide process optimization and creating pretty, professional-looking forms and spreadsheets. I won’t touch this oil on days I need to be on point, but it has been amazing for upping my persuasion factor in meetings and in conversations with my CEO, and also for the creative and design aspects of my job. I used to wait for inspiration to strike, and sometimes that could take way too long. Now, even just a whiff of the oil can get me in the zone.

    I have also used the oil to anoint my Venus offering candles, and I store it in the beautiful green paper from its shipping box on my dresser-top Venus altar. I have not yet used it in a full-scale ritual, but will shortly, and I am so excited to see how this Venus turbo-boost works in real action!

    This was a perfect first purchase for me, and after the initial experiences I’ve had with the Venus in Libra oil I cannot wait to try more of the S+S offerings… Perhaps a Mercury offering to layer might allow for focus AND persuasion at work? Not sure what’s next, I just want them all!

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    The effects of the Venus in Libra oil for a Combust Venus in Aries cis male native when anointing oneself or drawing Venus’ symbol over the heart and/or throat:
    • Lowers anxiety, introduces and establishes equanimity;
    • Changes self-perception into from ambivalence to growing admiration of one’s own beauty when gazing at oneself in the mirror;
    • An inherent sense of acceptance of one’s sensuality follows;
    • Sweetens one’s relationship to oneself and therefore others;
    • Honeyed self-radiance attracts synchronicities relating to the arts and the feminine;
    • Greater ease with oneself realised as an embodied experience which then is grounded in a growing appreciation and love for oneself when used over time.

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    ~~ *** I adore the Venus in Libra Series offerings. The Venus in Libra oil & Venus Sea Born oil instantly soothed me into a dreamy, calming meditative state before my mind could react. A secret treasure of energy when out in the world, powerfully restorative for home sanctuary time. Thank you, Sphere & Sundry. *** ~~

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    This oil is really lovely stuff. It has a calming, earthy scent, and while wearing it I felt a definite calming and relaxed energy. I’m a Libra rising with a tenth house venus to start with, but found this oil to help my social interactions to be that much more smooth and pleasant. 10/10 would recommend!

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    This oil is an absolute GEM. I used it during the Venus Retrograde to counteract some of the worst bits of that time, and it worked a treat for both internal softness and for external radiance. One of my most marked times using the oil was during a particularly high-profile event for me; everyone I encountered was appropriately charmed, even though my role at the event involved occasionally informing folks of some not-so-great things. I’ve also found it to layer excellently with the Mercury Cazimi oil when communication needs to be done efficiently but tactfully. Very glad to have this in my toolkit.

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    loving this oil! it is an instant mood lifter and makes me feel like life is a party that’s been thrown for me. Definitely makes me reattune to pleasure and be more expansive, exuberant and socially confident. definitely helped during the retrograde and been feelin it much more since venus is currently in libra. I am more used to the taurus side of venus so i’m having fun exlporing the libra side. so comforting to have as an option in my back pocket if i am in some kind of funk. smells amazing too. As soon as I started wearing it I got free food, clothes and home decorations given to me by multiple people. Really enjoying all the articles and altar suggestions as well- have a venus and jupiter one set up in my appartment! l

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    I’ve been using this oil on my wrists and also to feed a mojo bag that’s dedicated to a man with whom I’ve been on-and-off for a few years. He’s been notably more attentive and affectionate since I started using the oil, and the sex has also been stepped up a notch. Pretty good for initial results if you ask me! I’m looking forward to seeing what else develops as I continue to work with this series.

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    I’ve had wonderful results with this oil even when not interacting with people in person. A lot of my professional and community work involves communications online and by phone.

    Each time I’ve annointed myself with the Venus in Libra oil in the past week, my communications have been received with appreciation and even enthusiasm. I’ve found it easier to write with the necessary efficient nuance and get things done with grace. The result has been that some local political leaders plus other community leaders have sought me out for feedback and collaboration. These alliances are the kind of healthy cross-pollination process my community needs and it’s an honor to be part of it.

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    So, to preface this Testimonial, I work in Public Relations—which as we all know is a field that dropkicks you into the spotlight whether one is ready for it or not. Consequently, I’ve honed my social + communication skills and appearance to meet the stringent standards of my chosen career path. While I’ve dabbled with attraction oils and the odd Venusian libation over the years, I’ve always regarded them warily, because I could never discern if it was my practiced PR charm and ease kicking in during social situations, or my magical accouterment of choice at the moment. Suffice to say that they were all disappointing and anticlimactic and I swore off them a few years ago. Until this incredible oil. Hoo boy, where do I begin.

    I’ve dabbed it on my pressure points for three consecutive days, and this is what has happened so far:

    – A formerly reticent coworker who would make eyes at me but never approach me couldn’t stop seeking me out and chatting with me at every opportunity he got.

    – My social and professional calendar is quite lively, but never unmanageable. But these past three days, people couldn’t get enough of me. My inbox and calendar was so packed with people crawling out the woodwork begging for collaborative meetings and happy hours and lunches and whathaveyous, that it almost scared me with the sheer force and volume of it all.

    – In several different meetings, coworkers would randomly throw earnest compliments and praise my way in the midst of discussing serious strategy, or even while disagreeing with me!

    – People have also gone out of their way to be friendly and attentive while I’m out and about. I chalked it up to my generally cheerful and outgoing demeanor, until I was handed free pastries at two different coffee shops at two distinct, entirely unrelated instances.

    In short, this oil is e.x.t.r.a.o.r.d.i.n.a.r.y. It works in incredibly nuanced and unexpected ways, and I can’t wait to see what else it does for me. Thank you, thank you Kaitlin!

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    To present a concise but fully illustrative example of the power of this lovely oil: I anointed myself recently before a social event which had stirred some anxiety within me. I was an ad hoc host, with many guests attending who did not know each other. I didn’t even spend a reflective amount of time with the ceremony of anointing myself – just rubbed it on my wrists and neck and whisked out the door. At the event, my anxiety was fully overcome and replaced with a quiet, steady confidence. I never felt at a loss for a topic with which to engage someone in conversation. I felt fluid and calm, able to float from group to group without self concern. Conversations flowed, pleasant and unforced. It was a delight. I will be keeping this oil close!

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    HOLY SHIT. Okay, so. My vial of oil arrived on Saturday and I wanted to put it on right away but couldn’t because I had essay to finish. I kept thinking about the oil sitting on my altar though and what its energy felt like and WITHOUT HAVING PUT THE OIL ON YET my essay’s ending turned into beautiful poetic language that somehow tied up what had been a very disjointed bit of writing with a neat little bow that spoke to the beauty of the cosmos.

    I put the oil on once my essay was done and felt AMAZING. Blissful, beautiful, charismatic, happy. I took the hottest selfies I’ve ever taken right away and within an hour a former hookup invited me to a party at her apartment. I had another party to go to first, and after putting clothes on and taking more selfies, I left to go to that party.

    I walked down the street feeling confident and gorgeous and flirtatious. When I got to the party I felt the same, but one interesting effect is that I felt more strongly that I was waiting for someone to come flirt with *me* than necessarily the other way around. Not my usual gender role but not a bad thing by any means. It was at that party that I noticed that my chronic anxiety had disappeared. Things that would have led to negative self-talk in my head just… didn’t. I was calm but lively and loved myself like it was the most natural thing in the world.

    I went to the other party after that and as soon as I walked in the host started taking pictures of me. I chatted with a bunch of people and everyone seemed fascinated by me, including one person who described my energy as “radiant.” There were musical instruments being passed around and at one point someone was playing a blue riff on the guitar, and I stole the show with an impassioned rendition of Tom Waits’s “2:19” and received massive applause when I finished. Also someone accidentally flashed me when showing off her shirt.

    I left the party by taking a shared Lyft back to my apartment. When I checked the app to see whom I was sharing it with, it said: “You are riding with Heaven.”

    The next day I met up with a lover who was in town for a little while. I put the oil on before I left and she seemed to get lost in my eyes over and over again. She was entranced.

    I should mention that both nights I felt an ease and naturalness to being funny and charming that seemed superhuman.

    Back to Sunday, we went on a lovely date and wound up at this dessert restaurant where both of us got so turned on by the raspberry chocolate cake that we nearly tore each other’s clothes off right there. We restrained ourselves long enough to get back to my apartment. I put some of the oil on my lover before getting down to it.

    Best. Sex. Of. My. LIFE.

    It was connected, intimate, funny, hot, and hangup-free.

    The next morning we had a heart-to-heart about what we were feeling, opening up about our fears and what we were holding back, freeing up heart blocks and connecting in a fulfilling, healing way.

    In conclusion,


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    I just received this yesterday so I’ve only used it once, before going to sleep last night. I was astounded by the immediacy of the reduction in stress that occurred when I applied this! I am, unfortunately, dealing with what I believe to be Complex PTSD. It has been making my entire life seem to be an absurd, intense struggle. As you would expect of someone in my condition, I have tried many things to help myself. Although Kaitlin blatantly states that this oil diminishes stress, I was jaded enough to think that this probably wouldn’t have much of an effect for me in that way. It makes sense, though (as per my natal chart), that this Venus series would yield amazingly positive results in almost all areas for me. I can’t wait to use this oil in other circumstances. It is truly very special & powerful.

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